Friday, July 10, 2020

Suicide is the only answer to quit from problems ?

This confusion is common regardless of ages, country boundaries, education, family backgrounds and etc..

Before I give answers, I would like to start with the reasonable thinking of those people.

Reasonable Thinking (Theirs)
  • My family is too poor to effort me
  • A group of friends bully on me
  • I fail exams again and again
  • My neighbors look down on me because of...
  • I have debts
  • My heart is broken because of someone
  • I can't go back to my country
So, it's better to end up my life here, if not I'll have to face the same problem repeatedly.

My question is that Are you also one of them ? If yes, please pay attention to my words which are applicable for your whole life.

Begin your life again with "Change your perspective from Reasonable Thinking to Powerful Thinking".

Powerful Thinking

1. You are a very beautiful apple in the eyes of your lovely Mama and Papa
This is universal truth. You can't deny it. They wanted to see your face and being proud to have you even they might not reveal usually in front of the people as they are either introvert nor extrovert persons. Still, You are theirs. So, look at their natural beautiful faces whenever you feel depressed, anxiety, discouraged, hopeless. You will see hope in their eyes, will find encouragement, will get energy from their smiles. No matter what always remember the love of your family and move forward with their love. You'll definitely reach to a certain level of successful life.

2. Dream to help others with all you can

You might think that sounds strange.
How can I be ? (or) I'm not receiving any helps from others, so why should I do ? That's why I'm going to end my life.

Yes, I agree but you know ?
They need you. They need to hear your voice to against inequality issues.
They need you. Because they've been suffering civil wars, living without shelters.
They need you. They slip on the ground and can't stand up themselves.
They need you. They're bullied by others when they are alone. 

3. Love yourself

Look at the mirror and say yourself with a big smile "You are so smart" or "You are so beautiful" or "You did great job again" or "You helped someone" or "You did wrong but I believe that next time will be better".

How can others see you positively until you see positively yourself ? You should love yourself so that others will also love you.

4. Talk to the people

This is vital important to do. You'll hear their problems which are worse more than what you are facing. At the same time, they might have different answers to overcome all the difficulties. Or they might go through the same problem like yours in the past. Sometime you just need to have deeper conversation to dig those treasure from their heart. But it's worth to spend time with them. So, do it. If one person is busy, approach one more and two more until they can't meet your expectation.

Conclusion, Suicide is not the answer to quit from problems, powerful answers've been existing in your family, friends, coworkers, spiritual families and in yourself too. Where the problem is, the answer is there already.

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